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36 [M4F] #NY #LI Long Island
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Steps2TheLighthouse is a male age 36 looking for a female in New York
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Really what I’m looking for is a friendship, one that involves intimacy and attraction. Someone who is willing to share, talk , communicate and be upfront about what they want and need. I would never ask for more than someone can give but the connection and chemistry in something like this is important to me.

Things I don’t want: * I’m not looking for a strictly sexual relationship. I am a sexual person but don’t want an escort and I’m not one. * fast burning, all out mayhem and ghosting * someone who’s looking change their situation, get pregnant/share their wife or husband/join a cult/get caught by their spouse/ is still obsessed with an ex * someone who can’t understand what it’s like to have kids or a demanding career.

Me: * Tall (only 6ft) Dark (mostly in the summer) and Handsome (my mom still says so!) * A Dad and loving every second of it. * Works hard and has a demanding career. * Has multiple hobbies including snow sports, hiking, music, podcasts and a few other nerdy things 🤓.

You: * Isn’t insecure or hyperfocused on your looks. * Looking for a friendship that leads to something more intimate and meaningful. * (obligatory) Isn’t looking to change your situation. * Uses TG and is willing to exchange photos fairly soon. * Enjoys sarcasm, communication, dark humor and can match energy when having a conversation. * Is local or close to LI.

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a male
Age
36
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a female
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4 hours ago