I'm on the market for a new AP or LDAP. I'm an attractive 40 y/o MM. I'm white collar, have a great career, am easy going, and have great sense of humor...especially if you like the dry/smartass type. I'm also good looking, which is a plus. I'm 5'9, dark hair, dark eyes, medium build, some tattoos, and a nice smile. I am a standard issue male that is comfortable with my masculinity... I like beer, loud music, sports and all the other good stuff, but the thing that separates me from a lot of the other guys on here, is that I actually respect women. I'm not the type to demand nudes (or send unsolicited dick pics), try to grope you during a meet, speak down to you, or put you in compromising situations. I want you to be comfortable, otherwise, what's the point? Everything is so much better with mutual respect and comfort.

This isn't my first rodeo. I'm looking for someone to connect with on multiple levels. Kind of like a new best friend, but with the understanding that there are limits to this type of relationship and that we need to respect each others' home lives. I like to keep things positive and generally try to avoid spouse bashing (a little bit here and there is fine...after all, we're here for a reason).

I travel for work, but am based out of the Chicago area, and would like to find someone nearby. I can find myself in other places for the right person. In a perfect world, I'd find another traveling professional to meet in fun cities...a boy can dream.

Both physical and mental attraction matter to me, so I feel obligated to say that I'm looking for someone between fit and mom-bod ("a little extra"), but I'm just not into bigger girls. I'd rather be honest up front than disappoint. I'm not perfect myself, but my hopes and expectations are reasonable for me.

If this is something that interests you, reach out. I'm not the greatest at small talk...I'm more of a deeper/meaningful conversation type, so if you put in the effort, I will too.