It's on the calendar: in two weekends, my wife is taking our kiddo on a special trip, and I'll be home alone for the first time since... I coming up with nothing... it's been a long time.

And my goal is to have a great weekend. A remarkable weekend. A connective, refreshing, recharging, life-affirming weekend.

But there's one problem: I'm not much of a one-night-stand kinda guy.

This is where I need your help. We have just under two weeks to make a connection or, if it's not the cards, move on. This pace suits me well as I'm pretty alpha -- and not in the Andrew Tate incel bullshit way, but in the "let's identify a goal, then take concrete steps toward achieving it" way. Are you like that?

If so, send me a message or start a chat! Like I said, I'm not looking for a one-off encounter, but rather to cut to the chase with a like-minded potential AP so that, together, we can do something awesome in two weeks to kick off a meaningful affair.

Here's a little about me so you're not coming in blind:

I'm 40, married, 5'10", in very good shape from exercise and outdoor hobbies, white, and happily straddling the handsome/cute nexus. I'm from the east coast, went to a top-tier college, and followed my career to Los Angeles. Now I'm -- well, what? A gracefully aging hipster? An adorably energetic small-business owner? Amongst other dads, I'm usually thinking, "There's no way we're the same age." With those close to me, I aim to be humorous, honest, and direct.

And here's the you I'm hoping to find:

You're physically healthy, whatever body type that entails. You're not looking to fall in love per se, but you'd really like a trusted, consistent partner in this. You're a texter, but you also need time for your life, and you respect that about others. And you're not looking for any dick pics to crowd up your inbox, but you're down to exchange SFW pics early and maybe more later on.

If any of this resonates, send me a message or a DM.

Hope to hear from you!