The title says it all. In the game we choose to play here, it is extremely hard for men and much easier for a woman to find what they are looking for. In my time here, every woman I chat with has had a number of notches on their belt of guys they have met off here. On the flip side, the obstacles is guys go through to find someone on here is frustrating. There are times you are chatting with a woman, who is chatting with 5 other guys, and you don't make the cut. Then there are those famous catfish you have to worry about. I know you women are out there and you crave to have someone secret in your life that makes you happy. There are great guys out here. You just have to respond to a post and you too can have the success that some of the other ladies have.

Are your days a big blur? Running the kids to school, getting to work on time, juggling sports and who is picking up who? Then you finally get home and have to figure out dinner. Next thing you know it's bed time and you get to do it all over again. Are you stuck in a rut that you can't get out of? Does your SO even acknowledge you, show affection to you, hug you, kiss you, tell you how pretty you are, help you with chores, say thank you or compliment you when you get your hair & nails done? You need someone in your life that fills some of those voids that will make you feel good.

A little about me. I've been married over 10yrs and have a few children. I too am non stop in life. Between a high demand job, kids sports, dinner and taking care of the house, I would like someone to tell me that they appreciate me. I'd love someone to greet me with a kiss. Someone to hug me and tell me that they want to cuddle with me all night. I'm above average in height, have olive skin, lighter eyes and medium hair. I work out 5-6 days a week. I don't have a 6 pack but have a pretty good figure for 40. I love the outdoors and anything that involves it, like hiking, biking, concerts. I don't watch much TV but love music or a good podcast while I'm commuting or cleaning the house. I also like to relax on a weekend evening with a delicious adult beverage and erase the prior weeks craziness out of my head.

I would truly like to find a down to earth woman on here who is in the same boat. If this message speaks to you then you need to reach out. I'm not in it for the games. If you're into juggling guys then it's not for me. I want one woman to make me happy. In turn I will make sure she is also satisfied in any way I can make it happen. I want someone who is easy on the eyes, outgoing, sassy, smart, confident and sexual. Let's start something special and forget the negatives in life. I'm not looking to steal you from your family life. I just want to be your pocket bf. I want to be your secret getaway when we can meet. I want to be your good morning and sweet dreams. It's time to take the leap and answer a post. There is a good guy in the other side that is looking to make you happy. I hope to hear from you.