Hello Ladies,

Autumn is finally here... and as my favorite time of year approaches, I miss having my pocket girlfriend. I miss those daily doses of dopamine and oxytocin from an amazing woman. So here I am, looking for that spark, my biggest fan, and partner in crime. I am open to communicating with anyone, but someone in eastern or central time usually works best.

Here is a bit about me:

1 - I’m a 45 y/o MWM, married 18 years. We have a DB situation going on 8 years due to a medical condition. I miss that flirty banter and intimacy dearly!

2 – I’m a proud dad to a college aged son. I have an amazing 7 y/o lab mix. I recently had to say goodbye to my sweet 14 y/o German Sheppard. I adore animals and prefer them over people.

3 – I am retired from the Air Force, a small business owner, and a fulltime corporate trainer/business consultant. So, I keep busy 😊I travel a fair bit for work throughout the southeast.

4 – I pride myself on being educated, well-read, open-minded, emotionally intelligent, highly empathetic, and am very middle of the road politically (if that is an issue for you).

5 – Kindness, love, affection, thoughtfulness, attentiveness, and sincerity are integral parts of who I am. Two of my biggest heroes are Dolly Parton and Fred Rogers. I’m a firm believer that kindness can change the world.

6 – My top love languages are works of affirmation and physical touch. Or as I like to say, I am extremely affectionate, both vocally and physically!

7 – I manage my mental health well, dealing with mild PTSD, anxiety, and depression. You’d never pick up on this without me sharing it with you. I mention this to emphasize “we all have issues” and I am a very emotionally supportive AP.

8 – I aspire to be your biggest fan. I want to make you feel special, appreciated, respected, adored, desired, and craved regularly!

9 – Open communication is everything! I love talking daily but understand live happens. I just ask for open communication.. keep me in the loop. Let me know if you’ll be busy all afternoon or MIA for a few days over vacation. I love sharing pictures, voice messages, and videos all the time and being connected as much as possible.

10 – Physically, I’m tall (6’2) with a thick dad body. I prioritize my health, am very active, but I also LOVE food. I have salt and pepper blonde hair, neatly/short trimmed facial hair, big blue eyes, one tattoo on my upper back and one well-hidden body piercing.

11 - I LOVE CHRISTMAS!!!! I am super cheery and love making others smile. I decorate my house top to bottom (thing Clark Griswold in Christmas Vacation). My house is covered in lights and they are all programed to music. I love watching kids of all ages stop and smile, make memories, and remember a simpler and happier time in life :)

As for what I’m hoping to find:

1 – Someone that is also married or in a relationship, ideally a DB or lacking affection/intimacy.

2 – You’re not looking to change your situation or mine… but simply misses the spark, butterflies, and excitement of having someone special.

3 – Someone that is kind, thoughtful, but also has a bit of a playful/naughty side when appropriate!

4 – I’m drawn to a woman that is open-minded, emotionally intelligent, and mature.

5 – I would love to have someone be my biggest fan and isn’t opposed to feelings down the road!

6 – Someone that makes our communication a priority, but also understands our primary relationships & families come first.

7 – Someone that also craves affection would be fantastic! Overlapping love languages is never a bad thing.

8 – I am attracted to all body types and ethnicities, but I do prefer someone 30 . I focus on someone’s beauty (inside and out), not their flaws.

9 – Being a little nerdy is never a bad thing. I’m a huge star wars, harry potters, and marvel fan 😊

10 – huge bonus points for being an animal lover!

I think that’s a good starting point… Your move.