We all settled in some way the first time around. Maybe we knew it or maybe we just grew apart with time. Either way, I’m not settling this time and I hope you aren’t, either. I’m not trying to appeal to everyone - just one fantastic match is all I want. So I’m going to be as specific as I can with what I need and what I can offer you.

Seeking: Local to Atlanta or a frequent visitor. I want to see you often in person.

You should have a good cover story. Again, I want to see you, often. I’m not opposed to kids but if they keep you at home or limit your availability, it’s probably not going to work.

Height/weight proportionate. Ideally you enjoy some type of exercise regularly. I’m realistic and don’t expect washboard abs (nor do I have them). But health is important and we’ll be more likely to get along if we’re similarly minded.

You can hold your own over a great meal with great conversation. I’m a foodie and absolutely love to cook. I’m a reasonably adventurous eater and hope you are too. I adore good conversation. Let’s read a book or listen to a podcast together. Ask me difficult questions or tell me about something you read in the Atlantic. I have an incredibly thirtsy mind and love learning new things. Be willing to share your passions and be interested in what makes me tick, too.

What I can offer you: I have excellent cover for finding time to see you. Very flexible work, busy spouse, well resourced. No problem at all for me to see you in the middle of the week, whether it’s a hotel, a hike, or a quick coffee rendezvous. (Bonus points if you’re able to travel).

Experienced. I’ve been in this world long enough to know the ground rules. I’m not afraid of feelings, but I’m realistic. I’m comfortable with my choices and won’t get cold feet on you. Coffee fiend. Lover of edibles and good boy doggos. Green thumb. Excellent cook. Stuck in the 90s musically. Do I need to explain why these are all awesome?

Bedroom: firmly but not aggressively dominant. You’ll know how much I want you but will always be comfortable (rough consensual play is adored). Highly orally inclined (and most importantly, eager to learn what makes you melt into the sheets).

Physically: average height. Go to the gym and it shows, but not obnoxiously (see above, I’m a foodie and enjoy a good cocktail and the occasional dessert). Short beard. Not everyone’s cup of tea, but with age I have definitely found a style and look that works. Comfortable in a suit but happiest in joggers and a fitted long sleeve henley.

If you’re still reading, say hello already! Ideally we’ll move to Telegram and share pics once we’ve established a vibe!