61 M4F #WNY #FLX searching for a special connection for a long term affair. I have a fairly wide age range, like 40-65, because what I desire is so rare. Looking for a secret friend first, but someone I can be with on occasion. We are both busy, so the fantasy of a weekly rendezvous, is just a fantasy. I can afford an affair and am happy to pay for hotels and dates.

I try not to overthink a missed or delayed reply and hopefully you do too. Someone who can either say, or accept, “busy with the family, catch up after the weekend.” I hate ghosting and so do you, we are adults, let’s just tell each other the way it is.

I’m a small business owner, so have some flexibility, but also a lot of responsibilities. I spend my spare time either traveling or trying to learn something new. Definitely not a couch potato, but do love watching football. A sense of humor is a must, but so is sincerity and empathy. Not looking to complain about my spouse or hear about yours everyday, but open to the occasional vent. There are things we’d all like to share about our lives, but aren’t comfortable telling our friends, but the secret friend who is always there for support, is very special.

You need to be somewhat local, probably within an hour or two, or maybe you travel to this area for work. Overnights are the best, but would only occur a couple times per year, we both need to be ok with that, although it’s not a deal breaker if you can’t ever. I’m an average guy, with thinning hair, but still “potent, virile and vigorous” and I’m HWP. I love to give massages and long kisses. Looking for a woman who is stable, secure and who is also HWP. My home situation will never change and you are in the same spot. I have very tight OPSEC and you do too. I’m a well traveled guy who likes to see the big picture in life and will always think “the glass is half full.”

Interested in a sexy, smart, witty, fun, affectionate and loving woman. You must be married and wanting to stay married. Also, please be experienced in having an affair in real life and committed to something exclusive. Hopefully, after connecting remotely for a while, we meet somewhat soon for a cup of coffee or a walk in a park to see if there is a spark.

If you made it this far, thanks for reading. Hopefully you are looking for what I am, if not, good luck in your search!