Hello, I’m not really sure what I’m supposed to say. I’ll just start with myself… I’m married , 5’2 115-120lbs , more athletic, slimmer/petite build. I am also black. It shouldn’t matter but I really don’t want people who fetishize being with black people or the “you’d be my first black” like you’re collecting Pokémon or something. It’s not cool , and it’s honestly very scary when you guys say stuff like that. If you’ve never been with a black person that’s fine like it doesn’t matter just don’t make it a big deal and main point of conversation.

Ok now that the elephant is out the room. I am looking for someone who has the understanding that we don’t want to change our situations just adding more fun too it. Someone who’s in the same situation as me , currently been in a dead bedroom for 2 years. I miss the connection you feel with a person while having sex, and the high after. I miss connecting , talking and laughing with a person. I’m looking for something more long term , and someone willing to put in effort into this relationship. Willing to be like “hey here’s a little something to go get a pedicure” or let me fill up your gas tank etc. That kinda sounds like a boyfriend right ? Hahahaha that’s funny because that’s exactly what I’m trying to say. I’m looking for a boyfriend who just happens to also be married. Crazy combination. And if you aren’t into that, or not willing and or wanting to be emotionally available and it’s just sex for you, that’s ok. I’m not judging , just not for me. I’m needing that connection and looking for someone who wants these things too.

Bonus points if you’re already experienced since this will be my first time actually pursuing someone outside my marriage and looking for a connection with someone. But if not it’s fine, we can be each others first lol. And if you’re funny? Oh yeah, a girl loves to laugh. You can laugh me right out of these panties . Ok, well I guess see you on the other side? Or in the bed or in the car? Or …. We can just figure it out later

Xx

I would also like to trade pictures to see if we are attracted to each other before moving forward. And please someone who is local only PLEASE! Thank you!