Good afternoon/evening,

I want to apologize if this post is not up to the standards. I’m a first time poster and just want to ensure that this comes through as very genuine. So I wanted to start of by saying that I hope this year has gone well for everyone as we start to edge closer to 2025. I have read and read a lot of posts and always hope that everyone finds what they are looking for. After much thought I have decided to put myself out there and hopefully make a longterm connection with someone.

Like many of us here, i find myself married to a good person. They are the definition of a great partner. I think we all experience ups and downs throughout our relationships. Unfortunately things can become stagnant and the excitement can be fleeting. As a result we find that there are we begin to have needs that begin to go unsatisfied. Whether it’s in the bedroom or out of it, there is a void that is not being filled. On top of it all, we are pulled on a thousand directions as we wear many hats(mom, spouse, chef, driver). I think there comes a time that we just have to be a bit selfish and look to fill that void. I think we all know that our time is limited and we should be able to enjoy ourselves from time to time. That’s the situation that a lot of us are in. I want to make it very clear that I’m looking to run off with anyone. I’m more so hoping to find someone to fill that void.

About me: I’m married and with preteen and teenage kids. That in itself is a lot to deal with!! I have a career helping others and find it very enjoyable. During my free time I like workout at least every other day. When I’m not with my kids I enjoy cooking and listening to NPR. I try to read books but sometimes find myself disinterested halfway through a novel. I’m very easy to talk to and I tend to be a go with the flow type of person

About you: Hopefully you have been a longtime lurker on this sub and found that this post definitely calls to you. I’m hoping you are close in age and attached with or without children. Hoping you are able to chat consistently which is easier said than done. Eventually if things progress I would very much like to meet up for coffee or a walk. Im definitely not looking for anything to similar ONS.

Im not picky on looks and can appreciate woman of all shapes and sizes. More than anything im just looking for a good person looking to make a longterm connection with a great personality and hopefully close by.

If you are still with me, drop me a line and I will respond back as I am able too. Thanks for reading this long post!