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Ever feel like you are trapped in the same day? Wake up. Kids to school. Work. After school parent-uber-service. Dinner. Shower. Bed. Over and Over. Stuck on repeat. Groundhog day. Edge of Tomorrow. Map of Tiny Prefect Things. The hell of monotony. The unsatisfying lack of variety. White bread toast, day after day. Knowing what's coming tomorrow is exactly the same. Trying to enact change is met with negative results. No one wants to try the new restaurant. No one wants to do anything outside the norm. So you quit trying, give up. Abandon the feeling of adventure. Like some once great ship - stuck in a bottle and put on a shelf.
Me: 39, married, 2 teen kids. 6ft tall, dad-bod (that I'm working on). Bearded and kinda rough around the edges. No drugs, rarely drink. Occasional cigar socially. Stable job and home, and maybe that's part of the problem.
You: Similar in age and especially situation. Willing to put some effort into the conversation, and not just about the daily stresses. Key point for me: Be willing to meet - even if it's just for a drink/lunch/something - relatively quickly. Digital chemistry only accounts for so much. I do crave a physical component out of this relationship.
I'd like this to be a long term affair. Be each other's excitement, desire, and confidant. Explore and do new things of mutual interest. Work on bucket lists. Do the things we can't do at home. Be different people, yet the same at our cores? If that makes sense.
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