In those rare moments of peace/ calm between the hustle/bustle of a demanding career and the responsibilities of family life, I often think that there MUST be someone out there in a similar situation as me...dead bedroom for years, grown apart, different interests, etc. I know there is.

I've posted on here before with very limited success. It's literally like looking for a needle in a haystack. But on some level it seems like it should be much easier than this. Maybe I'll get lucky this time.

I'm an attractive, fit, young looking 42yo, professional, white male 6'0, 185, dark brown hair, blue/green/hazel eyes. I take my health (physical, mental and emotional) seriously.

Chicago area is home but I travel for work frequently throughout the midwest -especially to MKE, Detroit, Dallas, Nashville, Indianapolis, Minneapolis and Western Michigan. I prefer to find someone local to Chicago but am open to the above cities if the connection is there.

I'm looking for something meaningful and fulfilling. Preferably longer term while respecting our personal boundaries. I want frequent communication and regular in person meetings. I'm in this for the emotional connection as well as the physical-it just makes the sex so much better. I'm intelligent, witty, open-minded, excellent communicator, well managed ego, emotionally intelligent, sensual, affectionate and like to be in control. I'm a handful in a good way.

I'm attracted to affectionate/sensual personalities, kindness, healthy female energy, great communication skills, open-mindedness and women with naughty imaginations. I'm looking for one partner in crime.

My work travel allows me much flexibility in terms of meeting. My opsec is solid and yours should be as well.

The rest can be discussed through chat or messaging. If the above caught your attention, send me a message. Just know I will not respond to low effort messages. I'm patient, I know I'll find her someday. Just hoping I come across that needle sooner rather than later.