My recent encounters made me understand that most of the women here are looking for an emotional connection in the first place, so I’ll be brutally honest from the beginning: probably I’m not the right person for that.

Don’t get me wrong: I love to connect emotionally, I adore to feel those butterflies and I enjoy building strong relationships. My problem (or, more likely, my luck) is that I get this at home. I tried a deeply spiritual affair, but I figured out that I didn’t have enough emotions left to support my relationships with my wife, which I appreciate and prioritise over everything.

Therefore, now I’m here to fulfil the gap, that I’m not able to fulfil at home: the lack of intimacy. Don’t get me wrong again: we’re not in a DB situation, and when we have sex, it’s relatively good. I mean, at least we make each other cum, and that’s already not bad. However, our libido levels and sexual preferences are divergent, she leans vanilla, while I’d describe myself as a guiding, but still gentle and caring, Dom.

Nevertheless I still think that it’s fair to demand from men some interest in getting to know you before things get sexual. I don’t expect you to think like we do. Most women just want to be seen, respected, given attention and made to feel special. You definitely got sexy thoughts and urges, but usually not for the strangers. If I don’t care about the woman I’m talking to, why would she want to get intimate?

About me? Well, I’m from the UK. Married. No kids but we’re expecting a baby. I like to think I’m caring. Attentive. Mentally strong. Resolute. 6’2” tall, in a good shape and pretty well-endowed.

I want us to be in the same boat meaning absolute discretion should be as crucial to you as it is to me. I understand that we both have lives and sometimes we should get back to reality. Anyway, I'd check in regularly, even if I'm not available to provide a thoughtful reply.

What I’m looking for is a woman in her late 20s-early 40s. Preferably you’re healthy as I invest some effort into staying fit and I think it’s fair to expect the same from my partner. Physical attraction is very important, but being a nice person and a good conversationalist is a must. That being said, I prefer to exchange pics at some point after we build that initial connection.

If what I pictured above resonates with you, please use chat or DM to introduce yourself and, for an icebreaker, tell about the situation that made you laugh last time.