I'm no stranger to the online AP carousel but one thing that has been hard to find is a legit friend with benefits and I 'm hoping the potential of IRL will tilt the scales a bit.

The veil of anonymity here makes it harder to pick someone out of the crowd because there isn't something to catch your attention aside from clever text and maybe a decent description. Other than that everything is up to the imagination and a lot of optimism. I would love to find someone who can match what I bring to the equation and be the flip side of the coin so to speak.

I'm trying to keep my expectations low while not selling myself short by being specific in what I am hoping to find. The low expectations aren't in lieu of settling but more like I'm not expecting to get a flood of replies or will happen to find myself in the unicorn meadow of Reddit. I wouldn't complain if either happened but the reality is that we are both average to above average every day people.

I'm tall, catch my share of second glances and lingering stares, get mistaken for being in my 30's all the time, charming as fuck when I am in the mood, creative, heady, reserved, more likely to be insanely spontaneous rather than planned out, witty, not cut from stone but not resembling a sentient potato, complicated and moody at times, I'm discreet and respect boundaries, I'm not a prude and have some kinks but I'm not looking to be a "daddy dom' or anything. If you can say the same about yourself and looking for the things I can provide I would love to hear from you. If you live in the area that would be awesome but it is also awesome if you travel here enough that we could make arrangements. I'm looking for a nice balance of we maintain the relationship virtually, meet up when it is an option, and from there we let the vibe take us where it takes us.

I'm looking forward to hearing from you.