And so with that, let our adventure together begin!

My story is probably like so many others here, and without sharing every detail at least for now, suffice it to say things at home are such that I find myself…well…here. Looking for that amazing woman who wants to love and be loved and most importantly, doesn’t mind slacking off a little on the work front or the home front to converse with a totally hot married stranger!

I’m a very young-at-heart 41 year old guy, kind of a goofball but also charming, kind, and extremely energetic and curious about the world and everything in it. On the outside I may appear as your typical white collar husband and dad, but on the inside I’m full of desire, yearning for fun times and unanticipated adventures, and humor which is sometimes but not always dirty (ok, always, you got me. But I promise to at least pretend to be not filthy for the first 48-72 hours we chat).

If you care about physical appearance, and don’t lie, you know you do, these are the stats: 6 feet tall (real height, not Reddit height, otherwise I’d say 6’3”), about 195 lbs, not a renaissance statue but not quite dad bod either. Dark brown hair with some gray, short beard to match, and hazel eyes.

I am reasonably well-read, a travel junkie who still hasn’t explored nearly enough of the world yet, and an avid but not-very-good tennis player, golfer, and skier. Politically I skew somewhat to the left but I am not going to say we automatically aren’t a match if you don’t have the same views. I will not promise, however, not to engage in passionate debate and/or putdowns! I can take it as well as I can give it, not a sensitive Steve here!

As for you: be curious about the world and what’s in it, and have a good sense of humor. My surroundings consist heavily of upper-middle class wives/moms with designer clothes and nice hair and makeup, and I’m cool and comfortable with that, but I am open to all types and I truly mean that. Shoot your shot and all, right?

I’m in central/northern NJ with occasional business travel to the west coast. I’d really love something with the potential for in person, but I’d also be happy with a great online connection as well if that isn’t to be.

Interested? Then you know where to reach me. Have a great Saturday night! (It will be even better if you hit me up)