Where do I start....? But safe to say you know where this is going. Hopefully, you're still with me here to the finish.

I'm in a stale marriage of 25years that's lacking any form of intimacy and it has been like this a majority of my marriage. I.e., I have a platonic roommate with no spark to rekindle any flame. Love her as the mother of my kids and we get along for the most part. But it's our kids that keep me hanging in there. Despite this, my strong libido still needs to be satiated. Fortunately, I was able to offset the dearth of intimacy with a long distance AP for many many years (lasted a majority of my marriage. Not my first rodeo). Unfortunately, my affair ended a while back. Now that time has passed, I'm looking to reboot. I will and need to be discreet. OPSEC. Was able to keep my affair hidden from everyone. No one knew about it in my world.

I frequent my secondary home in SE MI every 1-2 months on average for 10-12 days at a time typically but officially live in Denver foothills. I also visit SOCAl, AZ, UT and Chicago often for business. When I stay in MI I'm solo. My ex-AP and I would always spend time together at my MI house the whole duration. I also traveled often to other cities with my ex-AP. This is how we made it last so long. My point is, if your up for fun and adventure then I have the ways and means to make it happen.

Not looking to change my or your situation. But interested in connecting with likeminded person that would evolve into something beyond texts to fulfill each other's physical wants and needs and allow me to be intimate on many levels and ways with someone. I'm not interested in an online-only affair. But, I understand things need to evolve through online chats, calls, etc. and I also don't need to rush into anything. Prefer a consistent LTR to ween me off this site but open to FWB, NSA, STR, etc. I can go with the flow.

Witty, facetious, smartass, social, outgoing, laidback. I'm not needy. Avoid drama. Can strike up a conversation with strangers. Like to enjoy life and have a good time. Can keep a party going and a campfire lit because I'm a night owl crossed with the Energizer Bunny (but can cozy up on a couch just as well). Active in many sports. Former college athlete. Have numerous, interests and hobbies that keep me busy. Important for me to stay healthy and in shape. (6'1 ~180#, salt-n-pepper, gray eyes). Business professional in medical devices that works from home. My only commute is to the airport. Educated. Well traveled for work and fun. Born, studied and worked in Europe. Well rounded - can carry a conversation on many subjects with many different types of people. Mechanically inclined. A man's man in many ways.