Howdy fellow covert traveler, thanks for taking the time to check out my posting.  I’m a 42 y.o. married dad with what is an apparently unique trait here, I’m not a ghost (Spirit fingers, anyone?)  and while I would be happy to provide references to back up my claim, it would violate the first rule of affair club. 

If you’re anything like me you’re here to find that person who can put the spark back into your life, pull you out of your beige rut and put sunhine, rainbows, unicorns and whatever else floats your boat back into your life!  This sort of relationship should be fun and make you smile when your phone dings or boops or buzzes regardless of if it just a text saying good morning or a delightful 80s glamour shot of either of us in speedos or whatever it is that people lay around in provocatively these days.

I'm a unique and interesting married guy living in the East bay.  An avid ice hockey player, amateur drone pilot, unlucky urban explorer and accidental comedian. I enjoy staying in shape by being the goalie for my hockey team (so many squats), lifting and riding my bicycle.  Now, if you thought that was it, hold on to your pantaloons, I also enjoy reading just about anything I get my hands on, I enjoy art in its many forms, listen to all kinds of podcasts and try to keep up with current emergency trauma techniques for field operations. 

I’m 6’2 with icy blue eyes and hair that crosses between darkish blonde and brown and many people have told me I have a really great smile.  I have a great sense of humor and enjoy making people laugh and I can carry on a conversation about almost any topic.  I have many other wonderful qualities and talents I’d be happy to share with you, however that would take some of the mystery and fun out of getting to know each other?

Who is am I looking for in this big crazy world or website? (These are not hard and fast requirements)

-Between 23 and 45, i realize this is a wide range but i learned long ago not to judge a book by its cover

-Be able to carry on a conversation, I realize we are all busy and sometimes have to run silent but you can’t build something off of one sentence every twelve hours.

-Self-awareness, is important for me, not just to ensure this doesn’t blow up but just in general

-In somewhat decent shape, you don’t have to be a power lifter, but I’d like someone that enjoys going to the gym, biking or practicing or play a sport like soccer, rugby or softball.

-Someone looking to meet and have an actual in person AP relationship!  It’s understandable if things fizzle during messaging, but I’m not interested in collecting names, I want to meet someone IRL.

-A bit of a flexible schedule, I have the ability to move things around to an extent during my workday and weekend, it makes things easier if you do as well.

I am happy to trade pictures early on, and if things click move to other more viable chat platforms.  I’m not a fan of ghosts, nothing against them just hard to have a conversation with one.  Let me know what your favorite non-physical trait about yourself is in your first message.

If you made it this far thanks for spending a few min to read my post and if you enjoyed it, thought it was funny or even felt like it was life changing please give me a positive affirmation thumbs up!