Hey you :) This is my first ad ever on here so please be kind!

I’m a married mum looking for a new AP, preferably an active married dad above the age of 35, someone who’s communicative, open-minded, has a sense of curiosity, unafraid to be vulnerable and who wants more than to skim the surface, connection-wise. Experience with affairs will be valuable, as navigating this lifestyle isn’t easy!

I would prefer a local partner but as I travel for work frequently, am open to a long distance relationship if we are able to make concrete plans to spend time together a few times a year. Date nights are just as important to me as hotel nights, and I hope for our emotional wiring to spark just as brightly as our physical chemistry.

More about me: In a relatively dead bedroom but otherwise happy marriage, holds a high regional position for a global company (very fast-paced industry and I love what I do!), I’m in the gym every other day trying to lift heavier and heavier, and am still trying to find friends to play pickleball with (Singapore weather is brutal, oof).

I also enjoy light gaming, watching horror movies, reading thriller mysteries (though my nose is also usually stuck in a non-fiction book), solo travel, writing, floristry, and talking about what keeps you up at night (figuratively, maybe!).

I’m of Chinese, Korean and Japanese descent, 5’4”, average size (a US-sized Medium), long dark hair, with numerous tattoos. A bit of a brat and very submissive in bed, so if you’re a respectful and caring dom, that’s a huge plus.

I’m open to swapping pics early so we’re respectful of each other’s time, and am also big on sexual health so would eventually ask to trade recent STD tests if we really hit it off and see ourselves getting physically intimate.

Send me a DM here with a recent photo if you’re interested and we’ll take it from there!t