Hello potential new friend/partner/risk taker, thanks for taking the time to check out my posting.  I’m a 42 y.o. married dad with what is an apparently unique trait here, I’m not a ghost!  I’d provide references but that really runs contrary to what we’re all doing here.  Seriously, what’s the point in investing so much time and effort into meeting someone and getting to know them (probably trading tastefully self-shot risqué photos in black & white) just to bail at the eleventh hour?  I’m looking to meet a fun woman who is also feeling like they have gaps that need filling their life. 

I'm a unique and interesting married guy living in the East bay that is missing the feeling of a passionate relationship, and hoping that I can meet a woman who is feeling the same.  Physically I have Icy blue eyes and hair that crosses between darkish blonde and brown. Currently tanned from working outside, a really great smile that is a little lopsided, a sharp and very funny sense of humor, well-read and an excellent conversationalist.  I'm 6'2 (a real 6'2, not like 5'8 and hoping) and fit from a combination of the gym and working with my hands.  I enjoy playing hockey, photography, weightlifting and urban exploration.

What kind of person would I like to meet? (not hard and fast requirements)

-Between 23 and 45, i realize this is a wide range but i learned long ago not to judge a book by its cover

-Be able to carry on a conversation, please don't be a rock. I’m not looking to have single word responses every six hours, it’s impossible to get to know someone that way, or move on to more adult topics.

-Self-aware, we are going to be doing something covert, trying to always cover up easily avoidable tracks will wear thin fast

-Please be in somewhat decent shape, you don’t have to be a power lifter, but I’d like someone that enjoys going to the gym or yoga on a routine basis. Lately I am finding myself really attracted to women that look like they play softball or rugby.

-Someone looking to meet and have an actual AP relationship with, being friends, enjoying texting each other, sex, all of it.

-A bit of a flexible schedule, I have the ability to move things around to an extent, it would be convenient if you did as well

I am happy to trade pictures early on, and if things click move to other more viable chat platforms.  I’m not a fan of ghosts, nothing against them just hard to have a conversation with one.

If you made it this far thanks for spending a few min doing so, and if i don't hear from you good luck on your own journey!