Is it possible to find that spark again? To enjoy each other's bodies to our hearts' content? Such things should not be reserved for our youth, at least I'm hoping it's not.

I am looking for someone very specific and I don't mind if this takes me a long time to find her. I'm looking for a woman to be friends with first and foremost, and then we should establish a connection so our conversations and physical interactions can become exciting and engaging. Once we are comfortable and ready, we shall do random things like hiking, going out for lunch / coffee or happy hour, working out, running, concerts, classy dinners, and of course some intimate time together. The goal here is to achieve a level of romanticism that would make anyone jealous. I'm talking about hot and steamy sex with teasing, foreplay, fetish play and whatever our thirsty hearts desire.

I'm a 40 year old stereotypical Latino lover (Mexican/Spanish/Irish), 140 lbs. with an athletic and fit body type. I am 5'8 and 135 lbs. I have an office job and am career oriented. I am kind and considerate toward others and give gentleness where needed but I stand my ground where it counts. I am not judgmental, I am easy going with anyone. I'd like to be lighthearted about most social situations and be sarcastic funny when appropriate, but overall I generally mind my own business. I enjoy running, hiking, beach trips, surfing, skateboarding, photography, writing erotic poetry, cooking, eating and pretty much anything social. I'm not into watching TV though I enjoy watching movies. My strongest suit is that I am a dedicated romantic. I am a fetishist who is willing to explore with reasonable limitations and conditions. I currently live in the southwest part of Riverside County. I am not new to the affair scene as I've been on and off for about ten years with some flings and spontaneous acts of horizontal yoga but this is my third time organizing a get together through Reddit.

As for you, I am looking for someone around my height, fit or mom bod is okay, educated, cultured, disease free and considerate towards your own body and hygiene.

Our first meet up shall be a meet and greet over lunch / coffee / tea just so we chat and begin our journey together. We will move forward once we are 100% comfortable with each other. Afterwards, we shall have regular meet ups where we plan things ahead of time since we may both be busy with life and things. I am mostly able to text on weekdays during business hours. Meet ups will also take place around the same time though we can do occasional weekends which again, may require planning.

I intend to find someone in South LA, Orange Riverside or San Diego Counties. I am not usually able to host, and I don't expect you to, but we can always find a room where we see fit when the occasion calls for it. If you live close then great but otherwise if you don't then we can also meet in the middle or I can drive to see you. Either way we can always work something out.

If you want to know more about me then just ask. We shall exchange pictures once we are comfortable with each other. I can't wait to find you!