Well hello there. I find myself in that desert that is commonly called a Dead Bedroom and I’m hoping to find an oasis of passion, affection and friendship with a long term affair partner (female only please). I’m not looking to leave my marriage, nor do I want to interfere in yours, so boundaries and discretion are very important to me.

I’ve done this successfully twice in the past and I’d prefer you’ve had some experience with an affair before as well.

A bit about me; Life has been good to me but I show some of the signs of making it to 50. I’ve managed to get here with all my hair but it’s a lot more gray than it used to be (I still list my hair color as brown on my drivers license but I’m starting to lose that fight). I’ve come to embrace the scars and the lines and the body that comes with making it this far and while I might feel like I’m 25, I don’t physically recover as fast as I did in the past. I’m 6ft tall, clean cut and I usually have a beard. Blue eyes and glasses round out the early 50’s Portland businessman look, and these days I’m much more business casual than the Pre-Covid suit times. I’m an excellent cook, a skilled storyteller and I suffer from a serious case of wanderlust, I’m either traveling or planning my next adventure out of the country.

I’m looking for my better half in an affair. Someone that I enjoy and find attractive, intelligent and funny. Am I missing sex? You bet, but for the sex to be great I need connection otherwise it’s just a physical act. I’m looking for a part time best friend and lover who can appreciate the inherent boundaries with an affair and embrace our limited time together. I appreciate communication and mutual support during an affair, and I’m not looking to just jump into anything with anyone.

I live in the ‘burbs (Clark County) and work in the city. My schedule is pretty flexible but daytime is always easiest for me.

Intrigued? I’d love to hear from you. Perhaps tell me your favorite coffee order so that I know you’ve read to the end of this post. Thanks for reading.