38M I never thought I would be doing this and have never done it before, but here I am. I am currently completely overwhelmed with life. I work full time and have a myriad of other responsibilities on top of some higher education requirements. Add to this marriage and family. I have been married for a over 10 years. Life has sucked out the passion and spontaneity. I have tried and tried to get it back, but life seems exhausting and repetitive. By some stroke of sheer luck I find myself in NJ next week for a work trip. I will be alone, my doctoral class will have just finished, and I will have evenings free and even more time Monday and Friday. I NEED AN ESCAPE!

I am looking for someone
to escape with me. Preferably a married woman near where I will be who has a
similar story and just needs to do something different....to live a little. I
am straight, but I am open to couples too especially if you are into the swinger
or hotwife lifestyle. I have never done that before, but you only live once. To
be clear, I am not just looking for sex. Some connection would be nice, but the
intent if we are comfortable is to express that connection physically.

About me physically. I am
5'9" with a solid build...more muscular, but I have little more cushion
that when I was jacked in my 20's lol. Still, I think I am good looking enough.
Blue eyes and I shave my head and usually have a clean goatee. I am clean and
DDF. To be honest, I have only been with 2 women in my life and that is part of
the driving force here too. I do not smoke and prefer you don't either.
Honestly I rarely drink except socially once in a while, but definitely doesn't
bother me if you do.

I won't put my check list
for you. Send me a message and tell me about yourself or if you are a
couple...yourselves. I have physical preferences (who doesn't), but personality
and connecting matters more. If you reach out and are both comfortable i am
definitely good with trading pics early. From me those can be both SFW and the
full monty. I have a decent full nude shot lol. So there it is...let's escape
and have fun. I am not looking to add something else that could add stress or
anxiety. So no pressure. I assume this will be a short term thing while I am in
NJ, but if it turns into more so be it. Let's just talk and see how it goes!
Can't wait to hear from you.