I am a wfh mom of 2, been with my SO for 11 years, married for 8. While I'm sure we've had as many ups and downs as any other marriage, we get along great, we're just not sexually compatible, and several conversations over several years has resulted in no change. I do want to make it clear I do not consider myself in a db so if that's a point of similarity you're looking for in a partner, you won't find that here. I am, however, looking for something long-term and eventually in person, so please be open to that before reaching out.

Just to fire off some stats, I'm mixed, dark skin, curly hair, brown eyes, piercings, tats, 5'9, curvy. I work in tech and me time usually includes wine or coffee, weed, water colors, reading, or music. I'm super into self-care, skin care, doing my own hair/nails/lashes, and the gym and I have been a thing for about a year now. I game - PS5/PC mostly. PC for my sims cause I won't put mods on the PS5 lol (although I also used to love city of heroes, bonus points if you know that one), and I do keep guitar hero in rotation on the wii if that's your thing. My last big area of interest would probably be movies/shows/anime/kdramas. I binge watch anything worth watching, and then everything else too. The one thing I do not care for is the outdoors. I like going out, eating, shopping, and being outside, but hiking/camping/bugs, no thank you.

I do consider myself a realist and am not looking for a whirlwind love affair, but I do want a genuine connection and I'm all for feeling feelings without rose colored glasses on. I can talk throughout the day, and am all for texting/voice notes/video calls when the time comes. Proximity depending, IRL availability would work best weekday mornings majority of the time. Relationship/bedroom status is not a determining factor for me, although I obviously require discretion, and a little bit of experience and comfortability in this lifestyle would be preferred. I value sentimentality, quality time, and a touchy-feely partner.

I'm going to leave it pretty open, but I would prefer someone somewhat local-ish to the lower inland empire, and between the ages of 25-50. Please reach out via chat only, no messages. And it's a running joke on here but I think we're all aware of how flooded dms can get on one of these, so please don't reach out with just a hello. I'm gonna be honest, I'm not gonna respond to every single dm, so I need some interest/interaction/personality to go off of. Doesn't have to be long or complicated, just something. And just to be clear, I am open to both men and women.

Thanks in advance to all who take the time, may we all find what we're looking for 🫶