I strive and am looking for the perfect to me situation. What I deem perfect in a person is anything but perfection. I won't say no to some perfection though. Let's be a bunch of good habits, with some bad sprinkled in. I'm an easy person to work with, you get what energy you give, I want to be adults and use our words to communicate our feelings. Talk through a problem or situation, instead of jumping to conclusions and shutting down. In my lines of work I say perfection takes time. It still holds true here, I require a solid friendly foundation on which we will build many things we can use together!

I've been married 10 years, a special secret friend in my phone is something I take very seriously. Let's create a place worthwhile to spend some of our spare time!

Can we start a conversation that we might never want to stop? A groove hard to remove ourselves from? Conversations seem difficult to come by, judgements get passed too quickly. I like being the kind of book you can't describe based on the cover. I like to be surprising, I don't like when people assume. Unexpected, I like to keep people on their toes! I'm eclectic, slightly eccentric, and engaging while also being pretty handsome and entertaining to look at. I'm a stoic and strong yet gentle man, with a few different looks. I really like to be silly, but I also really enjoy dressing up and looking fancy. Some curly brown hairs and a mischevious kind of crooked smirk. I have a face that's fun to make do things. I come with a confidence in myself and my ways, as well as a work in progress. I'm trying to make my sized medium shirts not look snug. I'm someone that's not easily offended, annoyed, I have a high tolerance for many things. I've got a few talents and skills that should help make this interesting for both of us!

I'm not a gamer, I'm not a sci-fi guy, I don't watch movies, I don't like pop country or cookie monster grunting metal music. I'd prefer you be a few years within age. Have some passions for me to get curious about! I'm a used to be internet person that can't stand what it has become/done to many. I stopped social media-ing after everyone moved on to the Snapgrams, I can also say I've never downloaded or scrolled tic-tac!

I'm looking for the total-ish package. A budding relationship experience, strangers kinda catching feelings, however slow or fast it happens to take us. I'm not settling for anything less than healthyish online obsession. I believe I have some of the requirements of being awesome, do you? Let's share some passions, interests, some things we enjoy, ways we spend our time, find new ways some of our time can line up. Find ways we can keep ourselves interesting.

It all starts with some conversation, let's see how we fit, where we fit, how we could use one another, plan ways we can move forward together! Engage our minds, stir up some stories or feels, make a good time out of discovering one another, notifications to look forward to, making what seems like nothing into a big something for us! I'm going to be part your perfect dreammy satisfying secret. I'm in a pretty exciting and new and interesting time in my story. I'd love to share some of my excitement with you!