First things first. I need someone mature, discreet, and who understands that I am not looking for anything other than a fun secret on the side.

I have a complete dead bedroom with the wife and it’s not changing as far as I can tell. I find myself here to see if there are women who are looking for the same thing I am.

I suppose I want an actual partner, an online friend with benefits. I love getting to know new people and doing my damndest to make them lose utter control of themselves. Physically speaking I’m 5’10, dark hair with a hint of grey, blue eyes and a well kept beard, broad shoulders and chest, think of a mix between a dad bod and linebacker.

I think I definitely want something more organic and flexible. I think I’d prefer some type of chat medium but PMs are good for saying hi and seeing if we sync up. Please be someone who is a good conversationalist. If you can only summon a few sentences every hour it probably won’t work!

As far as kinks - although I hope to discuss ours in detail with you - I am definitely more on the dominant side but not strictly. I find that if you’re turned on then I am probably going to find my pants on the floor fairly quickly. :)

I’m definitely not into the more extreme stuff. But left to my own raw, primal impulses I do tend to find myself spanking, hair pulling, and uttering a string of guttural curses and filthy comments and observations.

I love a woman who has a good head on her shoulders and loves to communicate. I’m open to seeing where we go but I do hope we can get to know each other - a good rapport only makes the kinky stuff more fun in my book.

I’m not looking for a pump and dump but something we could both enjoy and look forward to when the work day is dragging on or we find ourselves a little buzzed and more than a little excited on the couch at night.

If this sounds like fun to you then drop me a PM! :)