I'm married to a partner with chronic fatigue. I'm happy overall, but I don't give or get enough attention and I spend hours alone most nights. That certainly includes the sexual, but the ideal person for me is someone who wants to build a good connection that stops short of falling in love. That's a boundary my partner and I have when it comes to others; our relationship is open. I believe there's a lot of room for something meaningful. You know the kind of friend who you can be open with and tell nearly anything to? I'm hoping for that, as well as sharing some orgasms on a regular basis. I've got a lot of time to offer and can communicate often.

I'm looking for someone who's somewhere between late 20's and early 50's; age is a number and what matters most is how we connect. I'm most interested in someone who's positive, intelligent, loves to laugh, has passions and interests and hobbies, and has a dirty mind. Teach me about your interests; I love learning new things! Positivity especially is important to me; everyone has bad days and I'd love to listen and let you vent, but if you're almost always feeling down, we won't be a good match.

Here's a little more about me. I'm a plus-size guy; sex-positive and body-positive. I write software, play a lot of board games, and relax by playing video games while watching TV or youtube content I can learn from. I'm highly musical; I listen to as much and love discovering new music, and I go to live shows fairly often. I'm a keyboard player, not currently in a band, but doing some work at home in preparation for going to jam sessions or auditions to find a new band to play with.

I'm attracted primarily to someone's personality. When it comes to appearance, it's about your face; a nice smile and kind eyes draw me in. I'm happy to share pictures early. I'm not in a rush to get naughty at the expense of connection, but when we get there, I'm open to every form of online play. If you're local, meeting up might be on the table too, but do know that's something I won't be rushing into.

If you have some time to offer, especially in the evenings (I've usually got time to myself from 11 PM EST onwards), send me a chat or DM. Hopefully we can move to another platform before long.