I am looking for a partner who has her life well-structured and successful on the surface, yet pulsing with an undercurrent of control, sadism, and a deep-seated desire to explore the limits of pleasure and pain.

As an emotional sadist, I enjoy scenes in which my sub fails to achieve my tasks, rules and goes through emotionally distraught states. I enjoy a narrative in which they are reduced or destroyed into a little puddle of a desperate, apologetic, sobbing mess. I want her to acknowledge their own pathetic pitiful nature and then try to redeem herself with depraved sexual behavior or endurance of some physical difficulty until I’m satisfied. Yup, I’m a sadist! But....turns out some subs love this kind of scene too (yeah I’m talking about you, you twisted fuck :)

I once told a partner who was down on her knees in the bathroom that she had 20 minutes to clean my sink perfectly or else she would catch a caning. Then I cut up a dish scrubber into a tiny 1” by 1” cube, tossed it on the floor and began a timer. The poor thing began to clean furiously having no clue that I was always going to find a speck of a fragment no matter how hard she tried. Surprise surprise - I’m sadist! But in the end she endured the caning to show me how sorry she was, swore up and down that she would do a better job next time and I showed her I was proud that she took her punishment well. Because of the mental element, she took far more impact than she normally could, discovered a love for good old fashioned British style discipline and domestic service too. It’s a narrative. It’s a crazy story. It’s a big fucking fun kinky game if everyone is on the same page.So now you have a taste of how my mind works, let me tell you a bit about myself outside of kink:

Me: Physically I am 6'3'', fit, brown eyes, tan skin. I'm well educated, have my shit together, D&D free, sane, have ten toes and 32 teeth. I live on the East Coast and can travel but looking to get started online. I have a life outside of this and expect that you do too, i.e. I will NOT be available 24/7 so if you are seeking that dynamic we are not a good fit.

What I am looking for in a partner:

- Intelligence; I don't care about fancy degrees (although can't hurt) i.e. be able to hold a conversation and be an interesting person outside of kink

- Attraction; I am typically attracted to women who are in shape i.e. I am not attracted to overweight/chubby women. I'd rather be direct here than make it awkward down the line.

- Your Desires: You desire torture, balanced with the need for genuine connection.

- Mode of Communication: We start here and then move to video once trust is established. I am *not* looking for a penpal.

Next Steps: If this dynamic is something you enjoy, reach out to me with your age, a brief description of yourself and the name of the last place you traveled to for a holiday.