From the outside, I’m the man that has it all (and I do). I wake up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest, I have a successful and interesting professional career that I (mostly) enjoy. I’m involved in my community and get to work on things I’m either passionate about or interested in changing. I have the freedom and resources to travel and explore my interests. It’s kind of what we all work and strive for isn’t it? But instead of being able to enjoy it and embrace the moment I’m missing a big piece of what makes life so special- passion and romance.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. But maybe you are in a similar situation. Amazing life but missing that spark that comes from connection and stolen moments together? Me too.

I live in the Portland suburbs now (fled the city a few years ago) but I have a flexible schedule (especially during the work week) and can make this work with the right person as long as you are in the overall Portland metro area.

I’ve had two affairs in the past, both excellent experiences, but the last one ended about 19 years ago and I’m feeling incomplete and lonely without someone these days.

So what’s my type? I love intelligent and ambitious women. A sense of humor is a must. Brunettes tend to attract my eye but it’s not a deal breaker if you aren’t. Be passionate about something. I don’t really care about what, but I want to what you really care about or enjoy or interests you.

I’m the clean cut businessman type that’s given up suits for jeans and sweaters in my post-COVID world. 6ft, brown hair, blue eyes.

In a perfect world, I’d love to get together weekly and communicate multiple times a day, schedule and life permitting.

Intrigued? Let’s chat. Send me a message. Tell me one of your passions. Let’s see if there might be a spark.