Id like to be clear that I have no intention of changing my situation or anyone else's. I would love for this to lead into us maybe meeting for real one day but that's not a requirement.

So this isn't my first time on Reddit looking to find that other someone but after a little time away I just couldn't help coming back.

I won't go into much detail about my marriage here as I don't want this to turn into us just bad mouthing our partners. I'm happy to talk more about it if we hit it off.

A little about me now I stand at 5"8 In decent shape but still a bit too slim (I'm not quite Ryan Reynolds but I'm slowly getting there) 😅 My passions are playing music and videogames. I consider myself to be an OG nerd like before it was cool to be one 😉 Over the last 3 years I've really focused on improving myself for my health and in a silly attempt to grab my wife's interest. If you're into gaming/anime or anything nerdy like superheros or lord of the rings I'm sure we can find some good talking points!

As for what I'm looking for...all I can say is that I would like you to be able to have a decent conversation. I've never really had a "type" or anything like that. I firmly believe that everyone is beautiful and for different reasons. Some people are gifted with beautiful eyes and other may just have that killer personality that just sucks me in. I don't care about your shape,size,hair colour,age,skin colour,religion or your opinion regarding pineapple on pizza. I just want us to be comfortable and have a good time together.

Now we get to the why. As previously mentioned I've been steadily improving myself by eating better, regularly using the gym, maintaining a skincare and wellness routine and I even quit smoking in a bid to make myself more attractive and appealing to her. Unfortunately that hasn't went anywhere and I feel lonelier than ever.

I don't care if you've never had a relationship before or if you're in your 90s. I just want to have someone to share my love and affection with!

Hopefully this rant hasn't killed your interest 😂 hopefully speak soon! 😘