I thought I'd try this again because the last time I posted I got so many responses it was hard to manage.

I want a lover. I want sparks and chemistry. I want a part-time boyfriend.
I want one person to see regularly. We bring only good to each other's lives. We create fun sexy kinky space in our lives to play together. We fuck like love each other. 1-3 times a month. Or when schedules and needs permit.
We both can handle that it will be intense and amazing, but never anything more than part-time magic.
I want fun easy conversation and a respectful organic flow to sexier chat.
I want to chat here on Reddit briefly to see if we get along and then chat on Telegram.

I am Kind. Sweet. Witty.Good-natured sarcastic humor. But, I tend to match energy.
I’m passionate and intense, but also don’t take myself too seriously. I laugh easily and often.
I’m very sexual, intense, adventurous, expressive, and communicative.
Insatiable.

You:
Preferably aged late 30's-50's. I am open to some variation. No one under 30 please.
Within an hour from East Bay Area. I want to meet irl.
Be HWP. Fit.
Educated. Well groomed. Straight teeth.
Have the time and means to do this. (affairs cost emotions, time and money)
Willing to put in the effort to create amazing experiences together.Good sense of humor.

Me:
Aged 49
East Bay Area California.
HWP. 5’7, 160. Thick. Fit. Athletic.
Attractive. Educated. stylish. Well groomed.
Incredible sense of humor, very humble too ;)

I’m not in a rush and want to develop a connection. I want to spend a decent amount of time chatting (on Telegram) before meeting irl.

If anyone out there exists who can hold a good conversation, is over 30, wants to help me explore my kinkier side, and doesn't live over 100 miles away. please get in touch!

Let’s try create some memories we can’t share.:)