Salutations everyone! I hope you had a wonderful Christmas time, and you’re well and not feeling too lonely. Have you considered making it your resolution to start your New Years properly?

I am a 40 year old married male, highly educated, attractive,fit confident yet neglected in my marriage who would love to find a fellow minded amazing woman - with submissive tendencies in the bedroom - to connect with. Building a friendship in which we could allow to grow together, and explore would be ideal. I am open to all ages and locations.

More about me: Attractive, fit ( work out 6 days a week and fighting that aging bug), 6’1, with a traditionally handsome face (how others have described it) that can’t wait to brighten your day, positive and energetic with a zest for life. I am successful in my career and driven in life. I have blue eyes and a deep sense of humor.

I know my worth and what I want.

I am fluent in both English and Sarcasm. I love cooking new recipes, social gatherings, adrenaline filled activities, random road trips and escaping with a good book.

Now for the spice: I am a strict but caring soft Dominant. I know what I enjoy and love taking the reins so you can shut your mind off and just enjoy the pleasure you deserve. I firmly believe that the journey and exploration to find what works for us is important and not just a checklist of activities to try. However some things I know I enjoy: Breast worship, dirty talk, orgasm control, toys, mutual masturbation, mild degradation with praise, anal, spanking, face fucking, having my cock worshipped, and light bondage… I have discovered the lifestyle a while ago and am definitely experienced. Body positive, and sex positive. Please be too!

I usually use Telegram for further discussion and photo exchange to determine that mutual attraction. Send me a message and let this stranger become the rock you crave in your life.

Hugs (with butt squeeze) and positive vibes, J