It isn't being alone, in my opinion. I think it's waking up everyday knowing you are not in the right bed, next to the wrong person. I'm tired of being the last priority, my emotional and physical needs being neglected.

I'm not sure there are many real women out here. But if any happen to read my post, I'm looking for a woman who I can't wait to chat with each morning and see as often as our hectic lives allow, for fun, romance, and eventually intense displays of passion. I relate best to bright women who are self-aware with high emotional intelligence. Be real about who you are and what you want. Life's too short to play silly games. I'm only looking to connect with ladies in the NYC and Long Island area. Sorry, but I'm not looking to travel over bridges or through tunnels to meet someone or have just an online affair.

I'm not changing my situation due to my circumstances and don’t expect you to, either. Ideally, you're in the same boat. Mutual attraction is important, so please be HWP, a non-smoker and D/D free. If you're not willing to share photos, please don't ask for mine. Reciprocity is important to me.

What you'll get in me -- An intelligent, very handsome, witty (often sarcastic), romantic, professionally successful, open-minded, caring, passionate, man who is looking for someone to spoil -- emotionally and physically. I have so many hobbies and love to do so many things, the list is too long to write here. I'm tired of doing most of them on my own, so I'm hoping I can find a companion here. There isn't much I'll say "No" to trying. I want to make you laugh, wine you, and dine you -- like a girlfriend.

If you are straightforward with me, open-minded, honest, and are an attractive lady of substance, maybe I'm that unicorn you might be seeking. I have a lot to offer the right lady. I know you're out there somewhere ... find me. My journey is all about patience, persistence, perseverance, positivity, and purpose. Can you relate?