I’m not really big on writing these posts, but info below. Would much rather chat to get to know each other….

About me: 45, married, older children. Professional career, but looking for what’s next. Enjoy my wife, but NEED another physical/mental connection that can stimulate me.

I Have held both physical and emotional AP relations in the past, so not new to being discrete about things. The physical: around 6’, green/hazel eyes, recently lost about 60lbs and looking for the next goal. Average/ I suppose dadbod build, but always active around the house and hiking / roaming.

I’m seeking a female with the right vibe and attraction, no specific age. The vibe, connection, attraction and how comfortable/honest we can be is most important. My initial thoughts is someone that wants an avenue to discuss their true thoughts. A female that has desires, but not the safe location/person/outlet to show those inner wants/desires. Or, maybe it is that female that hasn’t had the opportunity to be challenged outside of her comfort zone? I don’t know??

No judgement zone here.

What I don’t want: to change my or your situation. To complicate anyone’s life. To have to text/trade messages 24/7. We have our own lives and we both need to understand that. I don’t want to be a ‘daddy’ ‘papi’, etc. it just creeps me out.

I’m sure you have questions just as I do. Let’s give our conversation a chance and see what happens. It could be a day, week, month, whatever. Let’s not define what this vibe together is just enjoy the journey of completely getting lost in the moment between two people. Memories and thoughts that make us smile.

Let’s just have fun!

Very interested in hearing from some awesome females that may be looking for the same.

Please be open to trading pictures. Let’s make sure the physical connection is there too.

Excited to hear from you and start this journey.