Hello reddit stranger,

I'm in a dead bedroom situation in which both of us have been at fault over the years. In this past year, I've decided to finally redirect my focus on myself; my body and my mental health. I've been sober for 5 years and found out just this year that my struggles stemmed from undiagnosed ADHD, yayy!

Now I'm finally forming into the man I wish I were in the past. My partner is not able to meet my needs at this time and home life is becoming monotonous. Sounding familiar, huh? I feel like I need a break from life; a temporary, but hopefully ongoing, escape. I want to meet someone who craves that same escape where we find excitement and butterflies from simply receiving a silent notification on our phone. Someone who wants to be their full true selves, open and honest, because they can't at home. Someone who wants to spend the day together when we can plan. Or just sneak out for an "appointment" or the "gym" because we're just too insatiable for each other's touch. ;)

I find myself wondering what could have been when I was single, so here I am. We're both here because we don't want to give up what we already have in our own lives. So please, let's keep it that way. I will gladly share more about my s/o and I if you're curious, but I don't want to share it so publicly.

I love: to workout, cook (also my profession), interesting/weird music, non-fiction podcasts, explore the city, and wander in nature. I really love when I meet someone who can get fired up and passionate about their interests!

I want to explore and develop my sexuality and intimacy. I don't need a mentor or guiding hand, just someone who is open to exploration. I'm dominant-leaning but I love to switch power dynamics with the right personality. I'm always open to new experiences and polishing the skills I already have. Consent and negotiations around kinks and fetishes are familiar territory. DDF and willing to show recent std testing is required if things get serious. I am mobile and usually free once pwr week for meeting, but able to text regularly throughout the day.

Soo tldr: I have needs that aren't able to be met right now and I'd love to share my life, within reason of course, with another woman who has needs as well. Not necessarily looking to rush into things. Connection is huge for safety, discretion, and intimacy. I know what I'm looking for, so please be intentional with me and I will be with you.

Please send me you age, location, and your favorite fruit in your dm! Tell me a bit about why you're on here and your needs.

P.S. This is my naughty alt-account. So please be aware if look into me, you will see some nsfw posts. I will happily verify with face pics if we feel there is some potential for connection but only on a secure app like telegram or signal.