I’m feeling stuck in a marriage where the affection only goes one way and it's led to a dead bedroom. Looking to chat with someone who understands the need for discretion and is also in a long-term relationship or married like myself, as well as being open to occasional meetup when schedules align.

I am in my early 30s, mixture of cute and handsome, half korean, 6’1 tall with a bigger frame. I’ve been told by friends that I resemble a mixture of Russell from the movie Up and Nick from New Girl. Overall, I’m a very affectionate person that thinks he has a great sense of humor and generally try to find the fun in every situation.

Some other interests include:, Listening to music (love going to concerts), traveling (have visited 10 countries so far throughout my life), reading books (currently reading Sirens of Titan), taking photos, hanging out with friends (yes, I have friends), and watching movies (honestly, I spend most of my time adding movies to my Netflix queue).

So, I guess this is the part where I describe the person I am looking for. Well, I don't necessarily have a type. I am really just someone that I can vibe with and feel a connection. Someone to chat with that will make me smile, but only I’d know why.

If it leads to the bedroom, ideally looking for someone who likes being more submissive as I enjoy being more dominant in bed and am very much into foreplay. I care more about finding that missing passion, so it's important that we are both enjoying ourselves.

With that being said, I'm not looking to meet immediately but would like someone to chat with to find chemistry before meeting and would like something ongoing.

Didn’t expect to have the post be long but if you made it this far and chat, send a message and let's get to know each other and see where things go.