It’s Sunday morning, an end to another weekend and I find myself here for the same reasons many of you, something is missing. When taking charge of my own happiness and going from reason to action is what compels me to do something l. For me, having done this before, I know for a fact that balancing out what is lacking makes me a better person.

It’s a tale as old as time I feel, that if the majority of your marriage is working quite well, a problem surfaces because if the other areas are lacking- the majority doesn’t matter as much. A lover and a friend can offset the mundane and bring balance to our lives, I ultimately want that type of connection…

An exclusive partner who is attractive, composed and one who takes care of themselves both mentally and physically. Certainly not vanilla, open to exploring new things and while kinky is great, it doesn’t have to be like that all the time. It builds up over time once the trust has been established. An equal amount and shared enthusiasm on both sides. A secret only we have between each other.

About me: Married, with tweens, dark hair with a hint of grey, blue eyes with a mix of a dad bod and linebacker build, I’m finding a balance between work and life practicing meditation and physical outdoor activities. I’ve been told I’m quite attractive, with a good sense of humor and laid back personality, good communicator with a bad dad joke or two.

You:

• Married or attached but not necessary if the connection is right, level headed, a sense of humor and confidence

• You’re an optimist mostly, with so much great going on in your life and it only gets better when you know you have that text to look forward to, sharing pictures about your day or making plans to meet up.

We are both busy with life and work, family is a priority so an understanding on both of our needs is important. Please be somewhat local, and have the flexibility to meet up a few times a month.

If this post has motivated you to message me, do so with a song that makes you think of your youth…. Operators are standing by…..

OPSEC is important part of this process so we can move to telegram once we feel comfortable in the conversation