I’ve been described as loyal, eager, and, at times, needy. I absolutely enjoy submitting to my Domme and do everything I can to serve and please her. I strive to make sure she is pleased with my obedience and melt when I receive praise and am told that I’m a good boy. Being cared for, in and out of scenes, is one of the best feelings.

I am looking to establish a friendship first before diving into the D/s dynamic as getting to know you will help build the trust I need to be a good sub for you. We should be able to talk about day to day life as well as click well in the dynamic. It is my hope that you feel cared for, and heard, even as a Domme. Everything in the dynamic should go both ways, mutual trust, respect, and sincerity.

There are times when I will be playful and flirty but nothing that would interfere with the dynamic. I also understand, and perhaps subtly seek, the punishments that are handed out as a result of any misbehaving I do.

Kinks: self-bondage, CEI (light and open to exploring), JOI, CBT / ball stretching (light), chastity, light humiliation and degradation, edging, orgasm control and denial, TPE, CFNM, pegging (never done but want to explore), CNC, assplay, clothing and lifestyle instructions, tasks, ruined orgasms, toys, light breath play, collar and leash, milking

Soft limits to be discussed: Water sports, public play, self-facial

Hard limits: Forced bi, forced feminization/Sissification, blood play, forced intoxication, permanent marking, anything illegal

Please respect my boundaries and don’t try to force anything in the hard limit area. However, it’s possible I’ve forgotten something and we can certainly talk about it.

It is important for us to both have safe words and aftercare and this is something I’m not willing to negotiate on. As a sub, being vulnerable like this means I need to be able to trust you and that you’ll take care of me. I will also work to make sure your aftercare needs are met as well.

In my non-kink life, I enjoy running, reading, playing video games, and enjoying other geeky things.

Who I’m searching for:
Eastern timezone is preferred but not a requirement
Some Domme experience (helpful, but not a deal breaker)
Kink and limit list

If you’ve made it this far and are able to respect my requests, please include what your favorite kind of dessert is.

If this post appeals to you, please reach out and we can talk further. Please tell me why you think we would be compatible and what you most liked from my post. Include your kinks and limits and a little about you as a person. We are not in a dynamic already so please don’t use any other names when talking to me. After we’ve chatted for a bit, I’d would prefer to move to a different messaging app.