To keep it short my dad was emotionally abusive towards my mother and I. It was always a battle until things became physical. Once that happen I decided I wanted nothing to do with him. (This was 3 years ago) my parents since then have gotten divorced and I haven’t seen my dad for over 2 years and I’m the happiest person in the world! He a classic narcissist so he tried to play manipulative games to get me to talk to him again. Today he text me this

“Hey Jimmy it's been way to long over two years . It's time for us to have a talk. I know you're probably uncomfortabl but I'm not the enemy. Please respond or I'll be forced to catch you at work to talk.”

I really don’t wanna have a relationship with him or even talk I frankly don’t want anything to do with him. I don’t know what to do and I’m freaking out because I love my job I’m at now and I don’t wanna lose it because of him. If anybody has any advice please help !! Thank you so much !