What is their obsession with constantly belittling there daughters and making them seem like pure dog sh*t, I mentioned last time but im working for my mom rn had to move back home (long story), but one of my guy coworkers that I bond pretty well with and he’s like my office bestie and he calls me his girl (not in a he likes me as a gf way but a home girl, friend way) and my mom knows that we’re good friends and vibe and text all the time etc.shes she’s that. anyways, during work today, he had to go in her office for something and he was sitting down and my mom called me to come help her with something and tell me why she took that opportunity to just air out all my personal business and made me look like a leech that’s a spoiled brat and such a burden. She started off with “I bet you woke up 10 mins before time to go and just threw something on” imma call him John just for this. She was like “John, I do everythingggg, I pay her car note. Car insurance, she’s living doesn’t have to do anything, I take the trash out, clean the house, the dishes and she’s so ungrateful” “ she doesn’t clean up and her room is nasty and as mess” “yall should become roommates but nah she’s too nasty” like what in your right mind would u say that to your daughter infront of a guy?!?! and then she starts comparing me to him and saying to him “don’t you have your own apartment and pay all your bills etc. and he’s like yea and mind you I’m just standing there looking like a fool and pissed if at the same time cus she’s just lying out her mouth and embarrassing me!! AND SHE ALWAYS!!!!!! does this to people she knows I like and they like me. It’s like it hurts her to see me getting treated right and having a friend! She always had to ruin it and make herself look like the harmless victim, single mother that’s struggling so bad! IM SICK OF IT. And now I’m so embarrassed because I look bad now, and apparently she mentioned this to him before while I wasn’t around. Now I look spoiled and lazy when first of off he didn’t need to know any of that anyways… I could go on all week and air out her business and how horrible she treats me but that’s not business appropriate but I just might now since she always wants to cross the line. Yes but even so, he knows my personal business even tho half of it wasn’t really true. Like image u suffering from depression and it’s extremely hard to do basic everyday things and your mom knows that and just airs that out to every and anyone. Like why tf does he need to know I didn’t wash dishes right after I cooked. I forgot she mentioned that. She was like she doesn’t clean up after she cooks, what??? U don’t either!!!! And she was like I bammed on Her door to wake up (which she did with a hammer @ 1 am) and just making me look dirty. Like why does he need to knows that?? She gives me pick me vibes like wtf…. And it’s so many good tho he about me and things I’ve accomplished…. Why would she take the time to bash me instead of how good I am and just good attributes.., I don’t understand. I don’t even wanna be friends with him anymore because I’m so embarrassed! She does this all the time to people I like and past friends, that’s why I’m terrified to bring people around her because she’ll definitely ruin it. Now I feel like I have prove myself to him so he doesn’t take her word. When in all reality none of it is his business, true or not. Smh.