Sorry, my english is not great today. Mom horrifically abused me. When I reached out to my dad about it, his response was, "Yeah, she is doing those things, but YOU GOTTA UNDERSTAND, Son, she's also my wife...that's my wife you're talking about...she's my wife." ... "I gotta let her do what she's gonna do. What am I supposed to do about it? There's nothing I can do about it. At the end of the day, she's my wife."

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This was many years ago, and they wonder why I still hate them.

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Just had to get this off my chest. I know there are others in this same position. You tell one child-care giver about the abuse another child care giver is perpetrating upon you. If they are spouses, they feel that they have an a priori need to defend each other first and foremost as like some sorta priority OVER THE FUCKING SAFETY AND WELL-BEING OF THEIR OWN FUCKING CHILDREN!

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And BTW, parents act like they own you, you owe them, you owe them respect, love, honor, and submitting to their unrestricted fucking abuse and that there's simply NOTHING in this cosmic universe you can hope to do to reverse that!

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I've gone HOMELESS over those mother fuckers and they've still never changed, accepted responsibility, admitted they were wrong in any way!