My mom is a narcissist and for as long as I remember she has been putting me and my siblings into roles . My sister (22) is the golden child and has always been accepted by mother but me (21) has always been the scapegoat.

I don’t think my sister hates me / I don’t hate her but there’s still a lot of underlying resentments. For a while I was very broken and had nothing going on for myself . So I feel like it was easier for everyone even though we’re no longer kids because I was still the “bad” one .

But now that I have a job and went back to school I feel like my sister cannot accept the fact that I am okay now . And I’m still struggling with getting to know the real her and not just the role we were given . Me and my sister are really close in age so I want to build my relationship with her but I’m really lost on how to do it . It seems like no matter what I do we cannot get passed this . When I tell her good news or things I’m up to I feel the underlying jealousy that I’m okay? Or she now feels like she’s not good enough because im doing good . Which is not true . My mom I can handle but I’m not sure if building a relationship with your siblings is possible after narcissistic abuse