How can I (cis f) combat newfound jealousy with my partner (MTF)?

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I’ve never dated a woman before my partner came out some months back. There’s been a lot of new things I’ve learned about myself that I don’t particularly like. One of them is feeling very competitive with her.

I’m thinking this is just misogyny rearing its ugly head. I feel like I’m now constantly comparing myself to her and it’s feeling like I’m less her partner and more like her sister? Or friend?

I hate feeling like this. I consider myself reasonably attractive and not particularly insecure in my looks. How do I combat this? Has anyone else felt similarly?

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