Well. I literally commented on someone’s post the other day how my(cis f) partner (mtf) promised me she’d keep me in the loop. Last time I heard she wasn’t even sure she wanted HRT and wanted to speak to a therapist first. I asked her whether she had booked an appointment with a therapist a couple of weeks ago and she said not yet.

I feel betrayed. I know that sounds extreme but I do. I feel I deserve to know what’s happening. I would never try to dissuade her from transitioning. And to find out via a third party?

Not even sure how to bring this up with her. All the stuff about not leaving me out of the loop and checking in with me feels like bullshit right now.