Hi there everyone. So, I never thought I would really post here. I'm a cis, striaght male, and i never really thought I would date a trans person. Not for transphobic reasons, but just the genitalia of MTF people would turn me off and I wouldn't want to pursue a relationship. However, that changed with meeting my new girlfriend, V. She's amazing and I really love her. I could keep gushing about her, but that's not why I'm here.

Now onto the question/discussion part. Firstly, are there any tips or stuff for safe anal sex? I am a virgin and truthfully anal sex was something I never wanted to do; however, here we are. I want to make sure i do it 100% right and make sure she loves every minute of it. Any tips on how to maximize that?

Secondly, her penis has really wigged me out at times and I've found it difficult to stay aroused. We have worked through that I think pretty well on photos and sexting, but we have yet to have physical intimacy (COVID is a pain). I'm afraid of losing it during sex because of the penis. Are there any tips for that?

Not to sound restrictive, but I would really like to hear of any cis guys who have been in my shoes? Just for the sake of relation and what not. Clearly, all answers are welcomed, I just really implore that group to comment or send a pm or whatever.

Thanks everyone for their time.

Again, comments or pms or messages are all welcomed. You say it however ya want. I don't judge.

(And yes, I did post this from r/asktransgender because I didn't know this existed so if it looks familiar, that's why lol)