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I can honestly fall in love with just about anyone, but I'm looking for someone who wants to fall in love with me. Like, I know you have to get to know me first--but I'm really looking for affection. I grew up without the kind of love I needed so I need someone who can show me that they care about me and is very open about it. I don't have a specific kind of love language because I just never got much of anything growing up, like some sort of daddy/mommy issue I guess. But I really want someone to pursue me, someone who is interested in me, I hate always making the first move and I hate always having to start conversations.
Non-tangible qualities?
I'd love someone who is able to be active and go out, but loves staying in. I'd love someone who would be down to go hiking or rock climbing one day and binge movies with me the next.
I'd love someone with tons of resilience, someone strong who knows what she wants and strong enough to go after it without letting the downs keep her down.
I'd love someone who is curious, someone who loves to learn, even if she's only interested in a few things--it's so thrilling to have someone passionate about something and excited to share what she's learned.
I'd love someone with a deep appreciation for their family and culture. Someone who is constantly bragging about how cute their mother, father, siblings, nieces/nephews are. I want to get swept up in your love for your loved ones. Speaking a second language is a total plus.
I'd love someone who shares things in common with me--I love cartoons, I love manga, I love food, I love a whole bunch of small things and it'd be amazing to lean back and love those things together.
I'd also love someone who likes stuff that I wouldn't even consider--kinda conflicting with that last thing I said, but it's so nice to hear about things that are new to me. Especially if you have a passion for them.
I'd love someone goofy. Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't mind cheering me up when I'm down.
I'd love someone understanding and patient. I can sometimes mess up (nothing hurtful of course) but it's nice to have someone who just gets me, someone who even gets me more than I get myself.
I really like the idea of someone from out of town, maybe even out of the country, who came here on a whim or just ended up here because that's where life led them.
I'd love someone artistic, not necessarily someone good at art, but someone who is creative and loves putting flair into things.
Physical qualities?
Kind of a loaded question--I don't have a type, so there are a lot of little things I can find attractive.
Height? Doesn't super matter. I actually love tall girls (even if tall girls don't love me). Short girls are cute too. Average sized girls can get it, of course.
Hair? I love dark hair, but how could I possibly hold anything against blondes, redheads, or girls who dye their hair. I actually kinda like it when ladies dye their hair because it's just so fun to see what they can do with it. Also, length isn't really something I have a preference for. Long hair is so sexy, but short hair is also pretty sexy. (This is corny, but I think I'd love to brush and/or shampoo someone's hair. I definitely got the idea from Brooklyn 99)
If I did have a specific interest, it would probably be this: Tan skin--I love that warm, caramel, light brownish yellow color that some women naturally have. It's the only thing I'm almost picky about, but I definitely love dark skinned girls and pale girls--don't get it twisted.
Body shape? Love women of all sizes. If you're a little thick, if you're really thick, if you're stick thin, I'm probably still into you--I'm probably waaaaay into you. Especially if you're curvy, but if you're skinny it's probably a little easier to wrap myself around you.
It's not something that I require or anything, but I kinda just dream about running my hands along someone and counting up all of their freckles and beauty marks all day.
And at the end of the day, I'm a sucker for a pretty face.
Likes/Dislikes?
I'd love someone who is deeply into one of the following: Manga, Video Games, Books, Cooking, or Science. Those are the things I'm mostly into and it'd kinda be nice to have a woman who knows way more about something than I do to just take me through things.
Someone who doesn't mind being the big spoon would be A
It'd be great to have someone who likes the same music I do (triphop/lofi hiphop/j-music), but I think it'd be better to have someone who was into different music--but could appreciate the music I like.
Someone who likes comedy--John Mulaney is a fave, but I also enjoy stuff like the Brothers McElroy.
Someone with a great sense of aesthetics--I don't know why but there are some, very specific things I like and it'd be nice to have someone who has their own set of likes. (for example, halfway cloudy days, airconditioning on, sun trickling through the window as the sound of the wind shakes the trees loudly, I'm playing sweet, soft songs that wander through the air gently as I drift in and out of sleep all day)
Someone who likes spiritual stuff--not necessarily tarot or the occult, but someone in tune with things that can't really be explained
Someone who can get a little dirty sometimes. Not necessarily a sex bomb kinkster supreme, but someone open and interested in trying things.
Oh, and someone who plays an instrument would be fucking amazing
When all is said and done, I'm not picky, but this is about your dream love and I really hope she comes and gets me soon.
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