I moved to Munich a year ago, hoping to (I know it‘s cheesy, find love…)

I lived in the US and Europe. Have a Bachelors and two masters in the Arts and Social sciences fields. Am an educated young man, deep in his Career path, Middle class, speak 3 languages as mother tongues and trying to pick up 2 more. I’m 182cm, 88kg, trying to loose weight and get in shape by swimming, cycling and gym. I’m a liberal white Muslim, super open and interested in progressive politics, IR, EU… podcasts, arts, Theatre… love to dance, go to Museums, have great discussions… relatively outgoing.

When I meet Women, they see me as some gay sexual clown who is always there for them to share their feelings… When I meet gay Men, they read me as a Vers/top to have a fun time with and then nothing happens… Straight men see me as this chill fun gay guy to go out with, maybe enjoy some good political discussions and get safely drunk with, have a good night with going out.

I do have friends but I feel incredibly lonely. I’d love to meet someone who has a good consciousness of their body, likes to do physical activity, is politically literate, wants to maybe build up a future. Maybe they are in the same age range as me… maybe they are queer or not… maybe they wanna live together eventually… maybe have kids?…

The 30s are hitting me hard and I feel like if I don’t make it happen now with that one partner… I never will… any and all help would be appreciated.

I’d appreciate it if I don’t get any homophobic, islamophobic or xenophobic comments. If you can’t contribute, just skip the post. Thanks.