Just thought I'd pop in and give an update on my issue of losing my erection after 5 mintues of orgasm instead of 10 minutes like I could do before.

I believe I WAS indeed leaking into my bladder because on closer inspection my urine was bubbly whenever this happened!

I've managed to stop that from happening just by thought power I suppose, and now can maintain the orgasmic state indefinitely again, I have to stop myself from continuing after 12 minutes, but I could continue now with a raging erection probably indefinitely, but I feel around 12 minutes of orgasm is enough. Really good stuff!

What I believe helped:

Mewing. I found this out on YT the other day whilst abstaining like suggested on my other topic. even though I don't believe Mantak knows who Dr Mew is or what mewing is, Mantak has been mewing for decades, he says he can feel a tingly sensation on the tip of his tongue, and I watched a video where he made a big deal about how important it was his teacher taught him to keep his tongue on the top of his mouth, how powerful this discovery was for him, and I saw a video where Mantak mentions babies are born with the tongue stuck on the roof of their mouth (which is mewing). So clearly this is an important factor that he does stress quite often with evidence and rational thought. I've watched a lot of videos on mewing, and Mantak is the only person I've seen mention and even show a picture of how babies are born with the tongue literally glued to the roof of their mouth!

I've been mewing religiously for 4-5 days since I found it out. I thought I did have the tongue on the roof my mouth like Mantak Chia suggests, but after learning how to mew properly, I can say I didn't and now that I do, I too can feel the tingly electricity on the tip of my tongue, and because my channel is now properly connected with the tongue, could be a reason why I find it FAR easier to orgasm without worry of ejaculation now and no longer feel a ball of fire-energy below my stomach when I orgasm, instead the orgasmic sensation is (very) subtly going up my spine and (more noticeably) dissipating from my brain to my abdomen.

Good luck!