I have started a new kingdom a while ago after being allied with the Rhokes and making them win 3/4 of the map and completley destroying the swadians. Then I got bored so i started my own kingdom (went to Gareth and renounced my oath and declared war and took my feiths back (Durhim and Uxlhal) At that time I had 50 ish right to rule, 1300 renoun, married but husband has left the relm ((lol)) and am female ((for steam achievement)) ) This is my first time doing a new kingdom so it was fun. However before I started. All the factions were constantly killing each other and were at war. But now it;s been a long time since I started and all just declared war on me at the start and for the whole time of my new kingdom, suddenly have no quarrels with each other and even help each other raid me.

A week in game they were slaughtering each other left and right now all friends?

Is this normal? It is really fun but it's quite weird.