This is probably going to sound dumb because, like everyone in their town knows how to be a parent. But also not really. No one actually takes care of their children. They are actively ignored, if not straight up abused. And even in her family upbringing flashback, we see her mom neglecting her in favor of her 2 siblings and her dad with no backbone to the point where she can just easily hide alcohol in her room-which is a normal teen mess but also might really be a scream for attention-

So this made me curious. Did she have Oral and Shapey just because she thought it was her Christian duty and not because she actually wants to or knows how to be a mom? Is this something super obvious that I just happen to miss until I decided to start rewatching it last night?