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Today I was in the club and a girl i have spoken to a few times before approached me. I definitely find her attractive, but normally she is a lot more "shy" (that's the best way i can describe her). She put her arm around me and started talking directly into my ear. I saw and felt that she was pretty drunk, while I was not because i had to work before. I kinda brushed her off by giving her short answer and keeping her a bit further away from me. She left, but after some time i saw her with a friend of mine. They were talking and laughing with each other and they eventually kissed. When i went home they also went home together. Weirdly enough I felt a bit jealous. I was jealous that it wasn't me that kissed her and went home with her, but on the other side I felt like I made the right decision. So, do you guys think I made the right decision or not? I'm really curious and still don't know if I might have missed my one and only shot
You did the more ethical choice. You 2 weren't on equal footing with her being drunk and you sober. If that was your 1 & only shot than it's not a shot or person worth pursuing.
Understandable to still have a case of missing out blues. Next time you see her while she's at least relatively sober explain that you were interested and weren't rejecting her, you just didn't want to take advantage. Chances are that will make her more into you & if she's now into your friend will still greatly appreciate what you did & feel better about herself
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