I want to find a dominant women who enjoys being in control not just physically, but also mentally. When I mean mentally, I refer to conditioning to implant triggers and controlling mechanisms you can easily initiate. I want to break up both sides of control into ideas of what my mind is picturing, so these are just insights to maybe help you understand what I’m craving.

Physically control is the easiest to explain: - actual physical mass over me, I weigh in around 160lbs, so a large individual can use their weight over me. - pet collar, this can be just a simple collar or one of those training collars (herm sprenger) when a strong tug occurs a physical pain occurs - chastity device to lock my penis away (I have one), I love wearing it. A leash could be watched to that as well. - panties to create a humiliation factor - bondage mitts to restrict my hand dexterity to just some nubs

Mental control is a little harder: - using hypnotic recordings and videos to inject triggers and suggestions into my subconscious - using physical objects (panties, chastity device, collar) as triggers - conditioning to create a direct link to scenarios or actions to create a trained reaction in return - intense training situations to break old habits and/or social norms.

My preference would be the ability to create a switch(s) to turn my brain off and go into an obedient mode.

As I mentioned in my title, I enjoy either a nurturing dom (mother like) control over me. A mother with a very strict firm hand to put me on the correct path. The medical side is another huge fantasy of mine. Someone who enjoys both is great, but not anything I’m expecting to find.

This is mostly to just help you understand what I’m looking for, so please feel free to tear it apart and provide other alternatives.

Directly message me is the best way to start a conversation.